Guest Feature: My Father's Account


"Yesterday was May 30th 2019, the 52nd anniversary of the declaration of Biafra republic. Yesterday we remembered the over 3.5 million people who gave their lives fighting for a just cause during the Nigerian civil war from 6 July 1967-15 January 1970. To be honest, I can't really say I've ever fully grasped the real story behind the war or the depth of it. Sure, I was taught about it in primary school, I'd hear stories here and there from uncles and aunts who lived during those times, and even from my parents. One particular account I can't ever forget was a story my Dad would always tell me, about his elder brother who died during the war, died from starvation. (story for another day).

Yesterday night, as I lay awake watching all the documentaries and reading accounts of different people all over social media about the war, I couldn't stop the tears from pouring. To think that our people suffered through all of that, worse still, to think that our parents went through all of that! Words fail me, really.

Today, I'd love to share this piece by a friend of mine, a piece that to be honest, made me start crying all over again.

Read, share to your children, your friends, cry if you must, I'd love to add "enjoy", but I don't know if there's anything worth enjoying about all of this. I've just got to say that we Igbos should be proud of ourselves, against all odds, we still continue to rise above it all."
                                                                                                                           Alma Rosenfield





My father told me of the war. I was little then but my eyes burgeoned in imagination as he told a story of sorrow, of want, of death. I thought he looked animated as he spoke. Me at his feet drinking his words and him seated at the edge of the parlour cushion spewing them; a solemn picture of uninterrupted connexion. It might not have been that way actually because it is a strange thing to sit on the floor in my home but that is how it is in my mind’s eye; something ‘up’ imparting something ‘down’.
My father was a young boy in the time of the war, hovering about his first decade and at certain times, in order to increase the pace of fleeing, had to be carried on the backs of one of the adults. He didn’t say much about the impoverished children with swollen bellies and tawny hair as pictures have depicted now. They must have seemed normal to him. He didn’t speak of their scrawny mothers who catered to them with withered breasts and despondent gazes. Everybody’s mum must have looked that way. He spoke of the things that were unusual, the things that would rattle a small boy, excite him even.
He spoke of Ojukwu. The mighty leader, the legend, the hero and redeemer of all Igbos. He said his voice whenever it was broadcasted over radio seemed like a mixture of roaring waves, victory and hope all in one, not to mention his admirable delivery of Queen’s English, his fascinatingly huge eyes and fan ears and roguish beard. He was the one all the boys aspired to, the character they all fought to portray in their role-plays. He spoke of the love they had for him and how much more they would have sacrificed without question.
My father spoke of his elder brother who was old enough and did go to the battlefront like many of his peers. He was brought back home a deaf mute a short time after. He had been around the spot a bomb dropped; far enough not to be included among his friends ripped to bits but near enough to have his eardrum torn by the blast waves. When he started recovering, he spoke in bawls and had to be yelled at to hear. My uncle didn’t return to the warfront though he begged so much for it.
The Fighter and Bomber planes and the ‘Ogbunigwe’ were another thing. The Ogbunigwe, ‘Killer-in-multitudes’ was an indigenous contraption designed by university scientists to do like the name opined. Father tried to explain that component pieces had to be hidden at various points around a perimeter and linked inconspicuously with wires so that when any group of enemy soldiers gathered within the area, a trigger would be released. The device left no talebearers. There was a particularly remarkable victory the Ogbunigwe garnered for the Igbos that had made it so celebrated and after the defeat, led to the abolishment of a particular discipline within the repossessed University of Nigeria. The enemy Fighter and Bomber were called planes but the way father described it, they seemed like helicopters that could fly close to the ground. The use of these ‘planes’ punctuated the unfairness of taking a war into civilian ground. When they came, you saw them just as soon as you heard them. You did not prepare for them and pandemonium always greeted them. My father recounted stories of demise he had either witnessed or had been told. There was the knock-kneed man who had gone to a nearby bush to relieve himself and soon enough the planes invaded. After they had exhausted their bombs and bullets and people could reappear from their underground bunkers, along with bodies and ripped human parts littering the streets, his bare buttocks attached to lower limbs was found stained with excreta.
There was hunger. Again, there was hunger. The sort that made families cook wild herbs that no one before or after the war touched. School boys no longer hunted lizards for the fun of it but for its expediency, in collaboration with their fathers. There was also delight when the hunger was ameliorated. With the capture of the seaports and despite the embargo on relief supplies, infrequently, some foreign organizations flew planes and dropped containers of smoked fish, powdered milk, multi-nutrient powders, canned beef, cereals and the like into open fields belonging to schools or churches. Then it was Christmas. The real life experience of Manna falling from heaven. The smoked fish served both as meat and as a source of salt that was in lack during the war. Those times, they would have respite from eating unfamiliar vegetables or meat.
My father spoke of fleeing; of moving away from his home at Enugu towards his maternal, and later paternal, village further inside Biafran territory. Journeys were made on foot, adult backs, carts, bicycles and rarely vehicles. He never mentioned animals. When the heart-sinking news came that land had been lost to the enemy and the signal was given, members of every family rushed to secure their ever-dwindling valuables for the flight. They had to sleep on the road exposed to the elements at times, or under a place called ‘Bacha’ within the courtyards of sympathizers in safer towns along their route.
My father spoke of betrayal and saboteurs, of a certain tribe pulling away. He mentioned the organic hate for the enemy in those times and what it made them do to captured soldiers. He spoke of Aburi. He spoke of the mingling of disillusion and relief at defeat, felt in peculiar ways by young and old, great and small. He spoke too, of the mix of fury and derision when Biafrans uniformly received twenty pounds in place of their savings after the war. He mentioned many other things I will not be able to forget.
How can I forget? Regardless of the growing library documenting the events of this war, I will tell my sons the personal stories my father told me and I will demand that they tell their own sons. So I cannot forget these things. I should not forget because there are responsibilities our unborn ones are unaware we owe, but notwithstanding, must be delivered to them. Then, it would be me and them: something up imparting something down.
 
                                                                                                                                                                 BOLIK




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